It can happen in a blink of an eye: you simply turn away in a crowded place. When you turn back, your child is nowhere to be seen.
Losing sight of your child – even for a moment – can be frightening, but it is a reality many parents will face at some point in a child’s upbringing. An extremely helpful lesson you can teach your child is how to be both cautious and calm if she is separated from you.
It is believed that 2,100 reports are filed everyday for missing children. Most of these separations occur in crowded areas like shopping centers, amusement parks, zoos, museums, or special events like concerts or sporting activities.
Often a parent’s attention is focused on their surroundings, their phone, a map or schedule. This distraction, makes it easy for children to wander off or ahead of the family.
“Younger children are anxious, and move from one attraction to another pretty quickly, where mom and dad stay behind a bit,” according to Robin Innes, the director of public relations for Cedar Point an amusement park in Ohio.
What to Do If Your Child Gets Lost
The moment you become separated from a child is a parent’s worst nightmare. As your heart is racing and adrenaline levels are rising, it is easy to panic. The best advice is the take a deep breath and clear your head. Focus on solving the problem and following your plan.
- First, tell your child to stay where he was the last time you were together. Wandering parents and children can prolong a search. Tell your child to stop and wait for you to come to them.
- With a young child, teach her your real name, and if possible, your cell phone number. It sounds simple, but many young kids only know you as “mom” or “dad”.
- If you’ll be taking a young one to a crowded event, consider getting a reusable safety bracelet or writing your phone number on a silicone bracelet or inside her shoe. If you are separated, another parent or the authorities will be able to contact you.
- Role play possible scenarios that mimic getting lost. Run through different scenarios and teach step-by-step how to react if they become lost.
- Identify people to ask for help. Teach children to stay in one place and call your name, but if you don’t come then they need to ask for help. Many experts suggest telling kids to find a mother who has children in tow for help. This will help ease a child’s fears in a moment of crisis, especially if you have stressed “never talk to strangers”.
- Make online safety a priority. Older children and teens are highly connected. If your child is carrying a smartphone or device you might be able to monitor his location by using GPS tracking or his social media posts.
- Carry a recent photo of your child. Besides offering a great bragging pic, you will have an invaluable resource at your fingertips if you need to seek help locating your child.
Experts recommend seeking help from employees, other patrons, and authorities within 10 minutes of a separation. Retrace your steps and take advantage of the protocol many businesses and attractions offer for lost children.
Most importantly, trust your instincts. As an attached parent, you have your own inner guidance system connecting you to your child. By remaining calm, aware, and knowing you have a plan, your chances of getting separated are greatly reduced.
Amy Williams
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