Breastfeeding in Public is a Civil Right

Chances are you’ve heard of a mother being asked to leave or cover her baby’s head while breastfeeding in public. But it’s actually legal in all 50 U.S. states. We hope this article clarifies any confusion and gives you the confidence to feed your child when and where you or they desire.

According to the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF), “Children have the right to life, survival, and development and to the highest attainable standard of health, of which breastfeeding must be considered an integral component.”

Women have the right to accurate, unbiased information in order to make an informed choice about breastfeeding and appropriate conditions in public spaces for breastfeeding, which are crucial to ensure successful breastfeeding.

The implications of these statements are obvious: Impeding breastfeeding in public is a violation of the human rights of both the baby and the mother. And yet, women in the United States are regularly shamed for breastfeeding in public.

BREASTFED BABIES EAT OFTEN

Debating breastfeeding in public as if it were simply a lifestyle choice like walking your dog without a leash or skateboarding on the sidewalk reveals a gross ignorance of human anatomy and physiology. One must know nothing about breastfeeding to assume that a mother could simply feed her baby at home in order not to have to bother with breastfeeding in public. 

Breastfed babies normally nurse almost continuously during the first few weeks and months as they are building up the milk supply. Human infants cannot simply be stashed at home while mommy runs off to do her errands. Baby needs to be the mother so that breastfeeding is readily available because breastmilk is low in fat and babies need to nurse often. And as a pillar of Attachment Parenting, parents follow baby’s cues on frequency and time of feeding.

MODESTY IS A DOUBLE STANDARD

The objection most commonly used to oppose public breastfeeding is modesty. But, it is ludicrous to even discuss breastfeeding modesty in the context of a culture in which clothing that reveals a woman’s breasts is well tolerated—even encouraged—in the media, in the workplace and in public, on most other occasions. 

While attitudes and customs regarding breastfeeding in public vary from culture and country to country, “In most cultures around the world, breasts hold no sexual connotations for either men or women,” according to cultural anthropologist, Katherine Dettwyler (source).

BREASTFEEDING IN PUBLIC AROUND THE WORLD

Women in Kenya, Liberia, Morocco, Nigeria, Rwanda, Somalia, Uganda, and Zambia breastfeed on demand without hesitation. Women breastfeed without limitations in Israel, Bangladesh, Nepal, Jordan and Iran. In most countries in Central America, breastfeeding in public is a common and ordinary activity.

Mothers in Barbados, Guatemala, Honduras, Trinidad and El Salvador nurse their children everywhere and, in most of South America, breastfeeding mothers confidently breastfeeding in public.

In Germany, breastfeeding in public is widely accepted, yet there is no specific legislation. In the Netherlands, it is common to nurse in public. Breastfeeding is actively promoted in Scandinavia and mothers in Norway, Sweden and Finland are free to nurse in every public location. Even, Pope Francis, in a Vatican City ceremony, encouraged women “to feed their babies anywhere, even in the Sistine Chapel, without thinking twice”

In Australia, the law protects every woman to breastfeed her child in public places and unfavorable treatment of a breastfeeding mother is prohibited. In New Zealand, breastfeeding in public is also assured by law, is common and widely accepted. In Canada, public breastfeeding is a public health issue and mothers feel free to nurse anywhere and rarely experience any criticism.

And, in Mongolia, where wrestling is a national sport, it’s believed that the best wrestlers are breastfed for at least six years. There, they breastfeed anywhere, anytime and in close quarters. According toRuth Kamnitzer, who lived in Mongolia during the time she was breastfeeding her son,

“When I breastfed in the park, grandmothers would regale me with tales of the dozen children they had fed. When I breastfed in the back of taxis, drivers would give me the thumbs-up in the rearview mirror and assure me that Calum would grow up to be a great wrestler. When I walked through the market cradling my feeding son in my arms, vendors would make a space for me at their stalls and tell him to drink up. Instead of looking away, people would lean right in and kiss Calum on the cheek. If he popped off in response to the attention and left my streaming breast completely exposed, not a beat was missed. No one stared, no one looked away—they just laughed and wiped the milk off their noses.”

In the United States, breastfeeding is protected on all federal property. All 50 states, the District of Columbia, Puerto Rico, and the Virgin Islands have laws that specifically protect a woman’s right to breastfeed in any public or private location. Thirty-one states, the District of Columbia, Puerto Rico and the Virgin Islands, also exempt breastfeeding from public indecency laws (source).

DISCREET OR INDISCREET BREASTFEEDING

In my generation, when less than 25% of women were breastfeeding, it was easy to breastfeed under the radar. I don’t remember any bad experiences breastfeeding my children in public 40 years ago. In those days, we were encouraged to breastfeed discreetly, but this advice goes against the grain of young mothers today who are increasingly confident in their body integrity. 

In my day, there were no breastfeeding fashions so we just wore t-shirts or other tops that we could pull up from the bottom. Today, while many breastfeeding fashions are discreet, others, like breastfeeding camisoles, pull down from the top and expose the breast, making breastfeeding more revealing. Some women, however, don’t worry too much about wearing special clothing because they are simply unashamed of breastfeeding in public. 

Another thing that may contribute to the backlash to breastfeeding in public is the fact that women are nursing longer today and it’s more common to see older nurslings in public. For example, several of the breastfeeding in public incidents, especially breastfeeding on airplanes incidents, have involved breastfeeding toddlers. 

But regardless of whether a mom is confident or intimidated about breastfeeding in public, it’s just not that easy to be discreet while breastfeeding, no matter where you are. As Sundae Horn says, “Some of our indiscretions are built into the system. I have big breasts that are hard to hide completely while wrestling them in and out of bras and babies’ mouths. My children have fought against having their faces covered (they want to see me), and both were born with the delightful habit of humming as they nurse. As if that weren’t enough, my 18-month-old daughter has named the act of nursing, “Boop,” which she whines as she tears at my clothing. It doesn’t fool anybody.”

STRATEGIES FOR BREASTFEEDING IN PUBLIC

Knowing your rights and the customs of other countries will, hopefully, give you more confidence breastfeeding in public. But it’s also a practical matter. Living in a bottle-feeding culture requires a little strategy. Not because anything is wrong with breastfeeding in public, but because the US is not a child-friendly society. Here are some things that might help when nursing in public. 

• Save this link on your phone: www.ncsl.org/research/health/breastfeeding-state-laws.aspx. It lists state laws in alphabetical order to reference in case someone approaches you in a public space.
• Choose a little hideaway. While out in public, look for a private, out of the way, unpopulated place where you can spread out and get comfortable. 
• A table in a food court or a bench in a more isolated area might work. 
• Fitting rooms are a good choice.
• Look for a ladies room with a couch. 
• Go to restaurants during less busy times and ask for a booth toward the back or out of the way. 
• And, obviously, the car is a possible, though not ideal, retreat. Park near the entrance.

Scout out these places ahead of time so you’re already prepared when you go out alone with your baby. 

CHANGING THE FUTURE

When we face obstacles as a mother with a baby, we often blame things on the baby or on being a mother or on some failing in ourselves. However, many of the obstacles we face as breastfeeding mothers in the US are artificially created by the cultural circumstances of our times and are not our fault at all. In fact, we are the victims of these cultural obstacles. This makes breastfeeding itself and breastfeeding in public, in particular, unexpected feats of political activism.

While breastfeeding is a private matter, it is impossible to keep it private if the human rights of women and infants are to be respected. It is only through making breastfeeding common in the public sphere that we will become a breastfeeding culture. And, it is impossible for us to reach our health goals as a nation if we do not become a breastfeeding culture. 

Walk tall and proud as a breastfeeding mother. You do your part toward the inevitable normalization of breastfeeding. Know that you are on the right side of history and that you are changing the future each time you breastfeed in public.